We all know consistent failure can really bring someones hope to make something happen to a zero level. And this is not about the one you try to do something for say two days and then you retire. This is the type of one you take the full course and still end up with a failure.
In this case, what you need to do is change your mindset. Instead of allowing past failures to discourage you from bringing your weight loss to a reality, (you know, when you get the ''I have already been down this road and look at where it has got me every other time''). You need to change that thinking 180 degrees.
And to do that, you cannot just sit around and say to yourself ''it is going to be different this time.'' Saying that to yourself is not completely a bad idea but that will not be enough motivation to keep you through the whole weight loss process.
Most people do not know that the number one factor working against their weight loss reality is their very own mind. And this happens without their knowledge. Do not fool yourself. To combat this, you will need proper instruction.
When you are over weight, you are carrying around a second "weight loss personality." What you need to do is get that personality out and replace it with one that inspires, motivates and encourages you.
Now that you have understood the underlying problem behind your weight loss, here is a few start tips for you. Be patient give yourself some time but do not baby seat it. The human body functions like a baby, you sit around and do nothing it will play along with you. If you get it to work it will get use to. You can start by eating healthy food, and then go to some light exercise like stretches and then you can go ahead and take a full gym class. Who say you can not do it. You can do it.